One of the most common questions that parents ask us is: “How do I help my child who has ADHD?” Children who have Attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD)
ADHD typically experience impulse control challenges. Children who have ADHD also have challenges listening and following directions. This can lead to many arguments between parents and children. You have probably already tried taking video games and other privileges away when your child is not listening (only to find that the issues persist). Please note that many children who have ADHD are not intentionally trying to be defiant, their brains are processing information in a unique way. In the moment, they don’t always know how to navigate all the incoming information. We recommend that when you are giving your child a list of chores or tasks to complete, only present one or two items at a time. Use a timer/clock that visually shows how time has elapsed because many children have a difficult time conceptualizing and managing the passage of time. Positive reinforcement in the form of verbally telling your child how much you appreciate their efforts is meaningful. When parents are busy and they believe that the tasks they have asked their child to complete are basic, parents do not think it is meaningful to verbally praise the child for completing the basic tasks. However, because following multi-step directions requires proficient executive functioning skills, it is worth mentioning your appreciation because it encourages your child to continue the good behavior. At Moody Counseling, we equip children (as well as the parents) with the skills needed to listen and follow directions so that way communication is enhanced. When communication and conflict resolution are strong between you and your child, everyone in the home benefits! Email scheduling@moodycounseling.com today to schedule your first appointment and learn more!